For the sake of marriage you should not be ashamed to ask for help or little tips to making love. One should never underestimate the importance of physical intimacy with their partner.
This is especially true marriages where it is too easy to become overwhelmed with daily frustrations so that one or both partners are too tired to bother having sex.
While you should place emphasis on your sexual relationship, that does not mean that you have to be wild in bed. A lot of times, men and women worry that they are not good enough in bed so they stop trying. You should know that for most people sex is not the sort of wild uninhibited thing that you see on movie screens. For most of us it is a comfortable and often quiet act that leaves you feeling secure, if not out of breath.
Love making tips:
1. Be in the moment. Whenever you are making love clear your mind of any other distractions and focus just on making your partner and yourself feel good. This is not always easy, with so much outside stress weighing you down. But, if you can clear your head of those distractions you will find that your sexual relationship is much more enjoyable.
2. Talk about sex outside of the bedroom. If you are unsure of yourself or just want to know what makes you partner feel good, have a conversation about it. You can not figure these things out in the midst of sex, but talking about it when you are both wide awake can breed all kinds of revelations. There is a very good chance that once you think about it with both of your minds clear you will see that there are easy ways to satisfy each other.
3. Dont be afraid to ask for what you want in bed. Women especially are guilty of not asserting their sexual desires, but men fall into this trap to. Whatever it is that would make sex with your partner better, you should have. He or she probably might not know that you are dissatisfied. Or, they might realize but simply can not figure out how to resolve it so they give up.